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May 21, 2002
prime objective for the meritocrat
The nature vs nurture debate has raged on for what seems to be an interminable duration. The one aspect of nurture that strikes a chord with me is the instilling of self-confidence in a child. I think parents play a crucial role in the estabilishment of self-esteem and self-worth in a child. Opportunities and capability aside, self-confidence and pluck opens more doors avenues than you can imagine. David Brooks has written The Merits of Meritocracy for The Atlantic.
Here are some interesting excerpts:
Starting at birth, middle-class Americans are called on to master skills, do well in school, practice sports, excel in extracurricular activities, get into college, build their résumés, change careers, be good in bed, set up retirement plans, and so on. This is a way of life that emphasizes individual achievement, self-propulsion, perpetual improvement, and permanent exertion.The prime ethical imperative for the meritocrat is self-fulfillment. The phrase sounds New Agey; it calls to mind a Zen vegan sitting on the beach at dawn contemplating his narcissism. But over the past several years the philosophers Charles Taylor, of McGill University, and Alan Gewirth, of the University of Chicago, have argued that a serious moral force is contained in the idea of self-fulfillment. Meritocrats may not necessarily be able to articulate this morality, but they live by it nonetheless.
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Second, society surrounds the individual with a web of instruction, encouragement, and recognition. The hunger for recognition is a great motivator for the meritocrat. People define themselves in part by the extent to which others praise and appreciate them. In traditional societies recognition was determined by birth, breeding, and social station, but in a purified meritocracy people have to win it through performance. Each person responds to signals from those around him, working hard at activities that win praise and abandoning those that don't.Posted at May 21, 2002 04:35 PM